Whatever Happened Was Supposed to Happen...

Hi Mommy's Babies,

This may be a tough pill to swallow on many levels but the sooner you embody those words the better off you'll all be. Whatever happened was supposed to happen.  Know that no matter how difficult the situation if you got to it you can get through it. You can make it through anything, through everything!  You are blessings to your parents. Know that! You are our blessings. No matter the how or the why God clearly decided to bless us with you all. For that we will always be thankful. I couldn't imagine my life without you kids. Even though some days I lay down feeling so defeated because I don't see my efforts to help you all walk in the light that you've been blessed with working in your favor. But I pray for guidance and a covering over you all and I wake up the next day willing to try it again.

Tuesday after school we listened to Dr. Ben Carson the neurosurgeon born & raised in Detroit, MI in 1951 tell his amazing story of how God grace kept & saved him & made him the man he is today. I want nothing more than greatness for your lives so I'm taking a page out of his book. I know you all aren't super excited to be reading a full book a week and writing a book report on it every Friday but one day you will thank me. Of that I am sure.  It's not so bad especially since I'm sitting down and reading with you. I hope to foster a love for knowledge within each of you that will turn into so much more.

I see the greatness within you all and I'm excited for you to see it as well. I'm thankful to have children who are in love with themselves the way you all are. Some of you more than others; Reigan & Reidan. Lol. Some of you not as much as I'd like. But I know that you love yourselves.  I want you to know that my daily endeavor is to see to it that your love of self grows to its full potential so that you exude love and are able to give it freely with no expectation and no letdown that will bring you down.

We are all human. Each and everyday we fall short of the grace of God in some way, shape or form but we serve a forgiving God.  So don't beat yourselves up too badly when you mess up.  Apologize and do better next time. The key is to own up to your mistakes and make a conscious effort to be better each day.

I've had my share of ups and down but through it all one person has always been by my side; God. Talk to Him. Read the bible as often as possible. Any questions about life can be answered in the bible. Talk to your parents because we've experienced things so that makes us wiser than you. Talk to your grandparents because they are wiser than we are too.

In life things happen. Many things we wished didn't. Some we enjoy immensely. Others we are indifferent about. But each and everything that happens in our lives is supposed to happen. God doesn't waste any experience. We are supposed to learn from them all. Sometimes lessons are harder to pick up on, other times we ignore what's right in front of us. That's when we end up experiencing the same things repeatedly until we get it. Since we can't change what is we have to work to accept it and move past it. As difficult as it may be.

I want you all to feel free to talk to me about anything, everything. If you don't feel safe doing that let me know so I can change to better suit your needs because I love you all and I want to help you grow in ways in which you haven't even imagined yet. Keep your heads held high, don't let the ways of this world conform you.  Be yourself. Stand out babies because your weren't made to fit it. You are royalty. The salt of the earth. You are destined for greatness and ou are great already.


Love You All Always,

Mommy❣❣❣❣❣❣❣
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